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א בייסעדיגע נייע ארטיקל פון בעני פאלאטשעק.
לדעתי האט ער א זעלטענער שפראך און פעדער פאר היימישען יונגערמאן (ווייסט איינער דא ווער דאס איז דער בעני?) אבער איך בין נישט זיכער אז אלע זיינע פוינטס זענען גערעכט.
http://bennypolatseck.blogspot.com/2014 ... rd-to.html
לדעתי האט ער א זעלטענער שפראך און פעדער פאר היימישען יונגערמאן (ווייסט איינער דא ווער דאס איז דער בעני?) אבער איך בין נישט זיכער אז אלע זיינע פוינטס זענען גערעכט.
http://bennypolatseck.blogspot.com/2014 ... rd-to.html
Smartness runs in my family. When I went to school I was so smart my teacher was in my class for five years.
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By: Benny Polatseck
In the last few months, I have experienced the intimacy of insult; my words have been diabolically distorted, and I have witnessed firsthand intimidation by people who seek to create a distorting fog of myth, hard block of silence, in an attempt to keep their lies and deceptions under the radar.
I am not someone who enjoys a fight, I don't seek confrontation, and I surely do not beam with joy when conflict erupts, in fact, to the contrary I try to stay away from confrontation as far as I possibly can, but when someone brings the fight to me I am not one to fold like a cheap chicken.
All this begun when I committed the inexcusable terrible and dreadful sin of speaking out against what I viewed as wrong, I did not try to change the narrative of any story, or defend alleged crimes, All I did was pointing out in a respectful manner the pain of innocent victims who by all accounts did not commit any crime or hurt a fly on the wall.
Acting as any friend should, I pointed out the anguish and heartache that my friends family is going through, The broken rudder of a tiny heart of the 8 year old boy who is subjected to grief and unbearable pain, that even an, adult would hardly be able to withstand, When I sat down with a pen in my hands writing my letter to rabbi Yaakov Horowitz, (Just for clarification purposes, Rabbi Horowitz is not my intended target in this article) I did not see white paper getting splashed with black ink or words forming into sentences and sentences turning into paragraphs, what I saw was a tiny round face with big sad eyes, eyes with a frozen gaze pointed nowhere, eyes that only months ago jumped out of their sockets with excitement like a regular 8 year old now lost their life, the only action that those eyes can still do, is tearing up and letting those tears roll down on the pale cheeks one after another.
I saw the look of a mother who watches her son bleeding on the battlefield, and is chained to a pole and she screams and cries for help but there is nothing she can do to stop the blood gushing from of her childs almost lifeless body, a spouse, that has lost all she had, a mother that tries to stay afloat on a stormy Ocean holding up her 2 year old so he can breathe, but the tides are stronger than her grasp and the tiny hand slides out more and more and his silent cries of fear and pain is louder than thunder, but her grip keeps on getting looser and looser.
You have to wonder what in the world provoked all this hateful slanders and attacks against me.
I have thought long and hard If I should even address those attacks, not because I'm afraid of further coercion and being the target of insults, but because, unlike the instigators of those actions I have a life, I have a loving family that I care for, I have a business to run, I'm not an old 40 year old hobo sitting in his mother’s basement and dedicating his entire life to bash humiliate and spread hate toward an entire community, I'm not a blogger who hides under a mantle of "Combatting foolishness with humor, satire and serious talk" when, in fact, there is no humor in ruining lives of entire families, and I surely don't have time to run an X-rated phone line.
Therefore, my initial inoculation was to remain silent, why subject my family and friends to those attacks, why put myself into the bulls eye of animals trapped in human bodies who are out day and night hunting for prey to feed their twisted minds and cruel souls with blood of others that have never ever done any harm to them.
However as Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. once said "The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people".
I'm not responding to those attacks in an attempt to defend myself, I'm not regretting my actions for a split second, I know what I'm letting myself into when I wrote a letter, and I choose to do it anyway.
However one thing was clear to me from the beginning, I made a pledge to myself, that no matter what the response to my letter will eventually be, I will not condescend to the level of anyone who is not smart enough to engage in a conversation like an adult, I will not overlook and step on my own values just for the sake of winning an argument, Today I'm as determent as I was then to keep my promise.
However the real truth is indisputable, the so called "Activists" are fostering abuse, actively working night and day to make sure that abuse continues, so their killing spree does not stall, and even more disturbing is the fact that they are using those innocent children, children who forever will be confused, guilty-to-be-alive survivors as human shields to cover up their real intentions.
All of them abominate the Hassidic community and the hate has nothing to do with the abuse concern, they are the first ones to report every single negative occurrence If only a Hasidic Jew is involved, Even this one so called "Chief Abuse Activist" can't hide his hostility towards the community, when over time his blog has evolved to report every single rumor, gossip in the Hasidic community, even it has nothing to do with child abuse at all.
So can someone explain to me when their ultimate love, care and compassion for our children transforms into hate, and antipathy?
At what age does this innocent sweet, adorable little boy who is stuck in a community that does not care one bit about his safety, parents that could not care less if their child is abused, At what age does this child that those "activists" care for, turn from a lovable, gentle soul to a cruel, careless, selfish, Hasidic guy that is eligible for treatment... From those "Protectors”?
I think the Irony is clear...
Can anyone explain how graphic detail oriented story telling on some X-rated phone-line every time an abuse scandal takes place helps the victim?
Now I'm not going to stand up here and deny that there are no rotten apples in the Hassidic community, just like in every single race, culture, and community, our community is not 100% clean, there are wild sick animals who lure in children and commit heinous crimes that damage those children for life, Animals that have no regard for the Torah, or for secular law, and embody the worst that mankind has to offer.
However at the same time there is no study or rational reason to indicate that this problem is in any way shape or form worse than anywhere else, and the Horror stories that those so called activists sell to the outside world are either a total fabrication or very very far away from the actual story's, but nevertheless, One true abuse story, is one too many and denying and ignoring the problem would be irresponsible and senseless.
Moreover I will not deny that just as in every close knit community reporting abuse and taking care of this problem is difficult, only because everyone knows each other, and it's much harder to report someone whom you know, or know his family, then reporting a stranger.
So this is precisely the reason why the former DA in Brooklyn has created a program where the names of the reported abusers are withheld for the public, so that people are not wavering from reporting abuse not wanting to hurt the family of the abuser, And guess what, that program actually worked!
However those "Activists" could not stand the fact that others are actually doing something that can really solve the problem, they could not stand the fact that they will not be able to use this issue to bash, humiliate, and ultimately destroy the community in order to advance their own agenda, and most of all, if names are kept from the public then their whole motive goes away, because not the children's safety is what's important, no, it's the thrill of being able to gossip every time an abuser is caught, but if the thrill is not there, then the heck with the children, they did everything in their power to destroy the program that actually worked.
There are lots of good capable people who would be willing to make a difference in child safety, but no one (Almost no one...) is ready to go through the treatment of those so called activists, who make sure to rip apart everyone who does something that can actually stop abuse.
In conclusion,
Times are changing, the true faces of those who hide their true intentions and are using abuse victims as a mask will soon be exposed, and more and more people see through the fog of myth and are taking a stand.
As for me... You can go ahead and call me names, invent stories, and mock me in an attempt to silence me, but that isn't going to work, I will not be silenced, I will speak my mind on issues I care about.[left][/left]
In the last few months, I have experienced the intimacy of insult; my words have been diabolically distorted, and I have witnessed firsthand intimidation by people who seek to create a distorting fog of myth, hard block of silence, in an attempt to keep their lies and deceptions under the radar.
I am not someone who enjoys a fight, I don't seek confrontation, and I surely do not beam with joy when conflict erupts, in fact, to the contrary I try to stay away from confrontation as far as I possibly can, but when someone brings the fight to me I am not one to fold like a cheap chicken.
All this begun when I committed the inexcusable terrible and dreadful sin of speaking out against what I viewed as wrong, I did not try to change the narrative of any story, or defend alleged crimes, All I did was pointing out in a respectful manner the pain of innocent victims who by all accounts did not commit any crime or hurt a fly on the wall.
Acting as any friend should, I pointed out the anguish and heartache that my friends family is going through, The broken rudder of a tiny heart of the 8 year old boy who is subjected to grief and unbearable pain, that even an, adult would hardly be able to withstand, When I sat down with a pen in my hands writing my letter to rabbi Yaakov Horowitz, (Just for clarification purposes, Rabbi Horowitz is not my intended target in this article) I did not see white paper getting splashed with black ink or words forming into sentences and sentences turning into paragraphs, what I saw was a tiny round face with big sad eyes, eyes with a frozen gaze pointed nowhere, eyes that only months ago jumped out of their sockets with excitement like a regular 8 year old now lost their life, the only action that those eyes can still do, is tearing up and letting those tears roll down on the pale cheeks one after another.
I saw the look of a mother who watches her son bleeding on the battlefield, and is chained to a pole and she screams and cries for help but there is nothing she can do to stop the blood gushing from of her childs almost lifeless body, a spouse, that has lost all she had, a mother that tries to stay afloat on a stormy Ocean holding up her 2 year old so he can breathe, but the tides are stronger than her grasp and the tiny hand slides out more and more and his silent cries of fear and pain is louder than thunder, but her grip keeps on getting looser and looser.
You have to wonder what in the world provoked all this hateful slanders and attacks against me.
I have thought long and hard If I should even address those attacks, not because I'm afraid of further coercion and being the target of insults, but because, unlike the instigators of those actions I have a life, I have a loving family that I care for, I have a business to run, I'm not an old 40 year old hobo sitting in his mother’s basement and dedicating his entire life to bash humiliate and spread hate toward an entire community, I'm not a blogger who hides under a mantle of "Combatting foolishness with humor, satire and serious talk" when, in fact, there is no humor in ruining lives of entire families, and I surely don't have time to run an X-rated phone line.
Therefore, my initial inoculation was to remain silent, why subject my family and friends to those attacks, why put myself into the bulls eye of animals trapped in human bodies who are out day and night hunting for prey to feed their twisted minds and cruel souls with blood of others that have never ever done any harm to them.
However as Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. once said "The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people".
I'm not responding to those attacks in an attempt to defend myself, I'm not regretting my actions for a split second, I know what I'm letting myself into when I wrote a letter, and I choose to do it anyway.
However one thing was clear to me from the beginning, I made a pledge to myself, that no matter what the response to my letter will eventually be, I will not condescend to the level of anyone who is not smart enough to engage in a conversation like an adult, I will not overlook and step on my own values just for the sake of winning an argument, Today I'm as determent as I was then to keep my promise.
However the real truth is indisputable, the so called "Activists" are fostering abuse, actively working night and day to make sure that abuse continues, so their killing spree does not stall, and even more disturbing is the fact that they are using those innocent children, children who forever will be confused, guilty-to-be-alive survivors as human shields to cover up their real intentions.
All of them abominate the Hassidic community and the hate has nothing to do with the abuse concern, they are the first ones to report every single negative occurrence If only a Hasidic Jew is involved, Even this one so called "Chief Abuse Activist" can't hide his hostility towards the community, when over time his blog has evolved to report every single rumor, gossip in the Hasidic community, even it has nothing to do with child abuse at all.
So can someone explain to me when their ultimate love, care and compassion for our children transforms into hate, and antipathy?
At what age does this innocent sweet, adorable little boy who is stuck in a community that does not care one bit about his safety, parents that could not care less if their child is abused, At what age does this child that those "activists" care for, turn from a lovable, gentle soul to a cruel, careless, selfish, Hasidic guy that is eligible for treatment... From those "Protectors”?
I think the Irony is clear...
Can anyone explain how graphic detail oriented story telling on some X-rated phone-line every time an abuse scandal takes place helps the victim?
Now I'm not going to stand up here and deny that there are no rotten apples in the Hassidic community, just like in every single race, culture, and community, our community is not 100% clean, there are wild sick animals who lure in children and commit heinous crimes that damage those children for life, Animals that have no regard for the Torah, or for secular law, and embody the worst that mankind has to offer.
However at the same time there is no study or rational reason to indicate that this problem is in any way shape or form worse than anywhere else, and the Horror stories that those so called activists sell to the outside world are either a total fabrication or very very far away from the actual story's, but nevertheless, One true abuse story, is one too many and denying and ignoring the problem would be irresponsible and senseless.
Moreover I will not deny that just as in every close knit community reporting abuse and taking care of this problem is difficult, only because everyone knows each other, and it's much harder to report someone whom you know, or know his family, then reporting a stranger.
So this is precisely the reason why the former DA in Brooklyn has created a program where the names of the reported abusers are withheld for the public, so that people are not wavering from reporting abuse not wanting to hurt the family of the abuser, And guess what, that program actually worked!
However those "Activists" could not stand the fact that others are actually doing something that can really solve the problem, they could not stand the fact that they will not be able to use this issue to bash, humiliate, and ultimately destroy the community in order to advance their own agenda, and most of all, if names are kept from the public then their whole motive goes away, because not the children's safety is what's important, no, it's the thrill of being able to gossip every time an abuser is caught, but if the thrill is not there, then the heck with the children, they did everything in their power to destroy the program that actually worked.
There are lots of good capable people who would be willing to make a difference in child safety, but no one (Almost no one...) is ready to go through the treatment of those so called activists, who make sure to rip apart everyone who does something that can actually stop abuse.
In conclusion,
Times are changing, the true faces of those who hide their true intentions and are using abuse victims as a mask will soon be exposed, and more and more people see through the fog of myth and are taking a stand.
As for me... You can go ahead and call me names, invent stories, and mock me in an attempt to silence me, but that isn't going to work, I will not be silenced, I will speak my mind on issues I care about.[left][/left]
Smartness runs in my family. When I went to school I was so smart my teacher was in my class for five years.
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[justify]אודאי איז ער גערעכט! וואס זאגט ער נאר? "איך בין געלונגען, געוואלדיג, חסידיש, איך שעם זיך נישט מיט מיין נאמען, איך האב געלט וכו' וכו'". וואס איז דא נישט צו זיין גערעכט? ער איז עמעיזינג ווי קיינער בעפאר! Wow! קלאטש קלאטש קלאטש... ס'אינטרעסאנט אז ער האט נישט געמענטשאנד אז זיין טאטע האט אויך מטוב לבו ורוב צדקתו מנדב געווען רבי חיים שיע'ס 2014 Yukon.
אה, בדרך אגב רעדט ער כאילו ער ווייטאגט פאר די וועבערמאן משפחה, אויב עס איז טאקע אזוי האב איך פאר אים א פשוט'ע עצה, ער זאל פארמאכן זיין בלאג און אויפהערן ציען אזויפיל אויפמערקזאמקייט צו די וועבערמאן סעמוטאכע. קוק וויפיל מ'רעדט דערפון נאר לכבוד אים. ער איז א שטיק ב"ש, אים גייט אן דריי זאכן וזהו, זיך, זיך און נאכאמאל זיך...
What a dope!
.[/justify]
אה, בדרך אגב רעדט ער כאילו ער ווייטאגט פאר די וועבערמאן משפחה, אויב עס איז טאקע אזוי האב איך פאר אים א פשוט'ע עצה, ער זאל פארמאכן זיין בלאג און אויפהערן ציען אזויפיל אויפמערקזאמקייט צו די וועבערמאן סעמוטאכע. קוק וויפיל מ'רעדט דערפון נאר לכבוד אים. ער איז א שטיק ב"ש, אים גייט אן דריי זאכן וזהו, זיך, זיך און נאכאמאל זיך...
What a dope!
.[/justify]
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berlbalaguleh האט געשריבן:איחוד פעלד האט געשריבן:לדעתי וואלט ? מען זיך געדארפט אוועקזעצען מיט די צדדים און פראבירען אויסארבעטען א מכאן ולהבא מהלך וואס זיי ווילען, און וואס מען קען טוהן וכו'.
ס'איז נישט דא וואס צו פארהאנדלען. מ'דארף איר געיבן צוויי פלאמעדיגע פעטש. (ר.ק.(אשת בארי דייטש(.
רוף נחמיה זאל ענדיגען, כ'ווייס נישט האט ער דאס אויך ליב?
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אדם המוכה מחבירו יכול לילך לקבול לפני עכו"ם אע"פ דגורם למכה היזק גדול (רמ"א סי' שפ"ח ס"ז), מותר לקצץ ידיו על ידי גוי (ש"ך ס"ק מ"ה).
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נולד מאוחר האט געשריבן:קענסט מיר זאגן אין איין שורה וואס ער וויל?
ער טענה'ט אז די עסקנים ווי נחום און הורוויץ (ער רופט זיי אקטיוויסטען), זענען שולדיג אז עס זענען דא מאלעסטערס, ווייל דער עולם גייט נישט צו דער פאליציי ווייל מען וויל נישט פארשעמען דער משפחה פין דער מאלעסטער, אבער טאמער וואלט עס געוועהן א סוד, וואלט יעדער געגאנגען. משהו כזה.
העטעך פעטעך, ווען מיין ליילעך וואלט געוועהן שווארץ וואלט איך אויף געשטאנען פארטאגס לערנען, ווייל מיינע חלומות וואלטען געווע ן שרעקעדיג.
א משוגענער באלאנגט אין משוגעים הויז, און א מאלעסטער באלאנגט אין תפיסה!!
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