עס איז ניכר אז דו קענסט נישט די קהילה פון די נאנט.
i know the kehille from very close and for sme reason know probably more then most ppl there about inside stories in families of his kehille and i can tell that he is BIG TIME a manipulator
when you say he dose not force anyone to do what he says maybe he dosent physically force them but he is very much manipulating them
maybe stam ppl who come to shiurim not but the families and young bucherim by him are being strongly menipulatod by him,
there are ppl who manipulate with "patch" or other threats and there are control freaks that control you by making you feel stupid if you do other then what they think
this is only about the bucherim but if the whole family is there he is instructing many crazy things that i cant write here
and the poor bucherim or kids cant do nothing about it
sorry that i can get into details here but i can write a entire book of shocking stories that will leave everyone here speechless
including a shiduch that he just finished by starting to sing simen tov mazel tov before the kalleh decided to make the shiduch - this is without going into details where exactly that happened
this is not only my opinion that he is a manipulator and has a serious personality disorder i heard it from great ppl who have a very deep understanding in "chochmos hanefesh" and had to deal with ppl of his community
by the case of the wedding this week if you know how he menipulatod this whole thing from the shiduch till the wedding in the yeshive and how when part of the mechtunim were still confused and didnt know exactly if its good to do it in yeshive he already used it in the shiurim and spoke abouit it in public that the wedding will be in yeshive and the family went nuts one of them for sure
there are ppl who do everything for money and there are ppl who have a inner sickness for control
i am not saying that the idea of a wedding in a shul is not good but how he menipulated on the families and how he is now becoming the whole hero is sick
enough for now maybe one day ill make a special ashkol and sjow you how his menipulation work and some shocking stories
buy for now