קאווע שטיבל

Is it Chassidish for a couple to go eat out once every few months and find a quite corner in a semi empty restaurant where no one recognizes them? If it isn’t what do you think about eating out while on vacation in Europe or Israel does it make it more Chassidish and why? If that's not good enough for you whats with a hotel ballroom, weekdays and shabbosim?

If you have any good restaurants in the NY Metro area where I won’t find my next door neighbor please list it, thanks.